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Portrait of a Warrior

Ken Pridgeon, Albert Villegas/Baytown Sun photo

By Gary P Jackson

Might as well grab a box of tissues now. Our friend and reader, Joy sent us this video over the weekend. It comes from an edition of the syndicated Texas Country Reporter featuring Ken Pridgeon, a retired teacher who has devoted his life to honoring Texans who have fallen in battle. He runs his Portrait of a Warrior Memorial Art Gallery out of a small storefront in downtown Baytown, Texas. [near the Port of Houston]

Ken “the dauber” Pridgeon’s Portrait of a Warrior Memorial Art Gallery is located at 308 W. Texas Avenue, Baytown, TX 77520. This is an incredible man with a wonderful gift. A real blessing.

For more information on the Portrait of a Warrior Memorial Art Gallery and how you can get involved, check out the website here.

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A Single Image That Continues to Haunt

The night before the burial of her husband, Katherine Cathey refused to leave the coffin, asking to sleep next to his body for the last time. The Marines made a bed for her. [Todd Heisler/The Rocky Mountain News, via Associated Press]

By Gary P Jackson

A solemn reminder from Lily Burana of the sacrifices that are made in order to keep you and I safe, and free.

Memorial Day. The unofficial kickoff to summer. Barbecues sizzling. Lawn sprinklers hissing. Local marching bands tooting out Sousa. Red, white, and blue bunting hanging from the porch railings, and on TV, someone begins a recitation of Lt. Col. John McCrae’s classic poem: In Flanders field, the poppies blow/Between the crosses row on row …

In the run-up to every Memorial Day weekend, for the past several years, a certain photo takes top spot in those most circulated among my fellow military and veteran wives. On blogs, on social media sites, it is shared and “liked” over and over. Taken by the photographer Todd Heisler from his 2005 award-winning series for The Rocky Mountain News, “Jim Comes Home”  — which documents the return and burial of Second Lt. Jim Cathey of the Marines, who lost his life in Iraq — the photo shows his pregnant widow, Katherine, lying on an air mattress in front of his coffin. She’s staring at her laptop, listening to songs that remind her of Jim. Her expression is vacant, her grief almost palpable.

It is the one and only photo that makes me cry each time I see it. What brings the tears to my eyes is not just the bereaved young woman, but the Marine who stands behind her. In an earlier photo in the series, we see him building her a little nest of blankets on the air mattress. Sweet Lord, I cry just typing the words, the matter-of-fact tenderness is so overwhelming. So soldierly. But in this photo — the one that lives on and on online — he merely stands next to the coffin, watching over her.

It is impossible to be unmoved by the juxtaposition of the eternal stone-faced warrior and the disheveled modern military wife-turned-widow, him rigid in his dress uniform, her on the floor in her blanket nest, wearing glasses and a baggy T-shirt, him nearly concealed by shadow while the pale blue light from the computer screen illuminates her like God’s own grace.

I believe this photo has had such a long viral life not just because it is so honest but also because it is so modern. During a spouse’s deployment, your laptop is your battle buddy. Your sense of connection and emotional well-being is sustained via e-mail, Facebook, Skype and Instagram. It appears, per Lieutenant Cathey’s widow, that the same is true even in a time of loss.

This heartbreaking — and groundbreaking — photo showcases the intersection of technology and agony.

I’ll never forget trying to describe the photo to my friend Veronica, an Army wife. I was standing in her stately West Point living room, trying to detail what was so moving about the stalwart posture of the Marine, the listlessness of the grieving wife, my voice cracking, and before I was halfway through my description, tears started streaming down her face. It is testimonial to the image’s power that it even affects people who haven’t seen it.

Read more here.

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